Bothering about friends

If you suspect  in your judgement in relations to others, and you think that you can not 

judge people well, and you got despair, confused, anxiety and depression,

so I tell you something may benefit you, human psychology is the strangest so  no one can expect people, so , don't put absolute confidence in people, but only in yourself, and if you got deceived from someone don't lose your self-confidence, this is a natural instinct in you which is supposing everything, and everyone is good, so keep your secrets deep in you, don't tell anyone.

suppose you give your secret to your nearest friend and at any time he got angry with you, he may tell someone about your secret, so people are not perfect man and anyone gets ups and downs so in this way, you will not get deceived again be social, to be with people you will have little secrets and , you will know  the behaviours of the others. When you need someone to solve some problem which you don't want others to know about, speak to someone you don't know.